Ben loves going to music concerts.

But to do that, you have to scope out the venue beforehand. He needs changing facilities and if we’re lucky, the venue will have nice, close parking.

Some people are also a little frightened of Ben. This is why we tend to go back to places we’ve been before.

This is the part of Ben’s life that most people do not see.

This is the Secret Life of Us.

Tracy, mum of Ben, 15.

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